Giving up an affordable, three bedroom apartment in downtown Regina that we loved, to live in a sixteen foot camper sounds incredibly stupid and crazy to the majority of people that we have talked to about it in the past few months. There are a small percentage of folks who were totally gung-ho about it, happy for us and wished that they could come with us, but let's be honest, they are the minority.
We are both aware of how crazy this idea seems to most people. We know that it won't be easy, but as far as I'm concerned, it wasn't always easy in our affordable, three bedroom apartment in downtown Regina that we loved. Life was beginning to get quite dull, what with the financial problems, job stress, friend drama, and then on top of it all we were told we had to move because of our dogs, and learned very quickly that there truly was nowhere we could go that would alleviate any of the stress or make us happy. We could settle into a shitty, over-priced rental house and be poor and grumpy, or we could be creative and figure out another course of action.
We were driving out to Echo Valley to walk the dogs and enjoy the sunshine when we got to talking about retirees and their "snow-birding".
Once we finalized our decision, we immediately began plans for selling our belongings, taking care of debt, and looking for an RV that we could afford, and wouldn't be too horrible to live in. We already knew where we wanted to go, we just needed to take a few months to get there. Compared to other times I just packed up and went somewhere, I think that this time, I was much more responsible when it came to taking care of loose ends. It wasn't easy, but in the end, everything worked out in our favor, even if it didn't go as planned.
And here we are. We've lived in the camper since October 1st, and we've been on the road for two weeks. We're alive and well, and figuring things out as we go.
Life hasn't changed much since we lived in the apartment.
It's still just us and the dogs, we see friendsand family once in a while, and Facebook, email and
Twitter keep us connected with the people at home, just like it did before.We aren't sure how long we'll be on the road, but we know we'll be back next summer for the annual Canada Day camping trip, and are thinking of staying in Saskatchewan for the summer. We might decide to stay there for good, or maybe we'll have found somewhere else we want to live by then. Or maybe, we'll have saved up enough money for a
better RV, and we'll continue on as we are right now.
Only time will tell.
If everyone thought it was a great idea they'd all be geniuses - and really - who would want that?
ReplyDeleteI look at it this way - you already have your retirement home - look how far ahead of all those 40-somethings you are ;)
I was a wanderer for awhile as a teen and if I hadn't had kids I'd probably still been wandering, but I will be taking it back up again in about 6 years or so.
Listen to your hearts and pay attention to the feets !
I admire you guys so much for doing this, and I'm so excited to hear about all your adventures. I'm sure you'll meet amazing people and do amazing things. If people think you're crazy, well, we're indoctrinated into a social world where we're expected to want certain things; it's threatening for some to watch others opt out of that. I say keep on making the decisions that are best for you guys -- and avoid the dullness at all costs!
ReplyDeleteGlad to hear you have indulged your adventurous spirits...you are exactly right to do so now while you are not parenting. (dogs are somewhat flexible) If you are back thru the Okanagan you better call Zac and introduce us to Anna...heartfelt best wishes....Kathy Wallace
ReplyDeleteI am in awe of you. I wish I: 1) liked camping, 2) had less stuff, 3) could be out there experiencing the world. Go you!!!
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